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Design Your Child’s Destiny!
Date : 2020-04-29
Ever\r\nwondered that you might have the superpower to design your child’s destiny?
Each one\r\nof us as a parent have this superpower; it is just that few of us are oblivion\r\nto it.
Parenting like every child is unique, different and\r\nspecial.\r\nThere is no right or wrong; there is no good or bad; there is no perfect or imperfect.\r\nThere are however challenges and various approaches to handle these challenges.
The\r\nsuperpower of parenting lies in increasing the capacity and capability of\r\nbeing a parent.
The\r\ncapability improves when a parent finds a better way to handle a situation or experience\r\nand the capacity improves as the parent finds more opportunities to repeat\r\nthose meaningful experiences for the children.
The\r\nability of a parent with systematic learning from experiences and\r\nimplementation of learning’s can improve the proficiency of the parent and thus\r\ngive the superpower to a parent to design the child’s destiny.
3 things that a parent can do to develop\r\nsuperpower
1. \r\nLike parents, like children: Be the role model to your\r\nchild.
Children\r\nlearn by seeing rather than listening to you. Actions impact their minds more\r\nthan words. Children inherit all the existential qualities like trust, faith,\r\nhard work, politeness, and perseverance, humility from the immediate\r\nenvironment and from loved ones. It doesn’t come from reading text books or by\r\nteaching a child through a lesson plan. Children observe it from you, the\r\nenvironment and people around and absorb it as part of their personality.
If\r\nthe child looses temper very quickly, find the out the source where the child\r\nis modeling it from and you might find it amongst your family members. If the\r\nchild needs a screen or says no to everything; you need not look beyond but analyze\r\nyour and your partner’s behavior.
Be\r\nmindful of how you conduct yourself , so that your actions and behavior can be\r\nthe superpower to design your child’s destiny.
2. Teach children the zen habit: Respond and not\r\nreact.
You\r\nare a factory of emotions. Real education is about teaching children to manage\r\nemotions. Emotions manifest in all aspects of life as they are governed by our\r\nsub conscious mind. They are manifested while eating, while driving, while\r\ninteracting with your colleagues, with friends or with your husband, with your wife\r\nand with children. We need to guide children on identification of emotions and\r\ngive them a tool to overcome stressful situations in life. Children need to be\r\ntaught to respond and not react by taking a pause and being mindful.
Without\r\nemotions clouding decisions, and with responding and not reacting children\r\ndevelop the superpower to take right decisions and hence craft their destiny.
3. It is all about neural associations: Get them right.
Neuro Linguistic Association are built with the physicality’s\r\naround you like smell, environment, taste, sound etc. Nothing can be altered\r\nabout this association that are already formed but with the right pre\r\ndetermined emotion from the educators and parents the child can be taught to\r\nenter a situation with a positive outlook.
Negative emotions can be converted into positive emotions\r\nwith a simple magic wand of “acceptance”. Anger turns to tolerance, fear to adventure\r\nand jealousy to inspiration and hurt to forgiveness with acceptance of the\r\nsituation or experience.
Teach children to pre determine their emotions before\r\nentering any situation and learn to take control of their own life and on how\r\nthey perceive a situation.
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