Design Your Child’s Destiny!
Everrnwondered that you might have the superpower to design your child’s destiny?
Each onernof us as a parent have this superpower; it is just that few of us are oblivionrnto it.
Parenting like every child is unique, different andrnspecial.rnThere is no right or wrong; there is no good or bad; there is no perfect or imperfect.rnThere are however challenges and various approaches to handle these challenges.
Thernsuperpower of parenting lies in increasing the capacity and capability ofrnbeing a parent.
Therncapability improves when a parent finds a better way to handle a situation or experiencernand the capacity improves as the parent finds more opportunities to repeatrnthose meaningful experiences for the children.
Thernability of a parent with systematic learning from experiences andrnimplementation of learning’s can improve the proficiency of the parent and thusrngive the superpower to a parent to design the child’s destiny.
3 things that a parent can do to developrnsuperpower
1. rnLike parents, like children: Be the role model to yourrnchild.
Childrenrnlearn by seeing rather than listening to you. Actions impact their minds morernthan words. Children inherit all the existential qualities like trust, faith,rnhard work, politeness, and perseverance, humility from the immediaternenvironment and from loved ones. It doesn’t come from reading text books or byrnteaching a child through a lesson plan. Children observe it from you, thernenvironment and people around and absorb it as part of their personality.
Ifrnthe child looses temper very quickly, find the out the source where the childrnis modeling it from and you might find it amongst your family members. If thernchild needs a screen or says no to everything; you need not look beyond but analyzernyour and your partner’s behavior.
Bernmindful of how you conduct yourself , so that your actions and behavior can bernthe superpower to design your child’s destiny.
2. Teach children the zen habit: Respond and notrnreact.
Yournare a factory of emotions. Real education is about teaching children to managernemotions. Emotions manifest in all aspects of life as they are governed by ourrnsub conscious mind. They are manifested while eating, while driving, whilerninteracting with your colleagues, with friends or with your husband, with your wifernand with children. We need to guide children on identification of emotions andrngive them a tool to overcome stressful situations in life. Children need to berntaught to respond and not react by taking a pause and being mindful.
Withoutrnemotions clouding decisions, and with responding and not reacting childrenrndevelop the superpower to take right decisions and hence craft their destiny.
3. It is all about neural associations: Get them right.
Neuro Linguistic Association are built with the physicality’srnaround you like smell, environment, taste, sound etc. Nothing can be alteredrnabout this association that are already formed but with the right prerndetermined emotion from the educators and parents the child can be taught tornenter a situation with a positive outlook.
Negative emotions can be converted into positive emotionsrnwith a simple magic wand of “acceptance”. Anger turns to tolerance, fear to adventurernand jealousy to inspiration and hurt to forgiveness with acceptance of thernsituation or experience.
Teach children to pre determine their emotions beforernentering any situation and learn to take control of their own life and on howrnthey perceive a situation.
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